At ERC, where I fellowship, preach, and teach, we have a question and answer time once a month where people can submit their questions anonymously and then either Thang Bwee or I answer them. For the questions that I have the privilege of answering I’m posting the answers here for your edification and general discussion. If you think there’s room for correction then you’re more than welcome to do that publicly using the comment feature below this post. I look forward to our interactions.
The Question(s)
II John 1:10-11
10 If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your house or give him any greeting,
11 for whoever greets him takes part in his wicked works.
III John 1:5-7
5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are,
6 who testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God.
7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles.
We know that false teachers are very much dangerous for the whole family. They can destroy the family lead into astray. In order to protect from such dangers… it said we should stop them and should not allow them to enter into our house. We should not welcome them from our home. Even not need to greet them on the street. It is what the text is teaching?
If like that…. My questions are….
1. If we act like that to them isn’t it that people consider us as a very rude and impolite man? They might think that we are not like Christian.
2. Can we distinguish or separate differently between life of Christian and social life?
My experience: When it happen to work together with people from outside the Church, they understood us as we use to forgive others. Then they use to take opportunity over us for their own benefits. Labourers do not take serious on duty to us. When we show our love in Christ to them, they use to take more opportunity for their own sake and least concern their duty to us. Many times we lose because of those unfaithful non-believers.
Questions….
2a. How shall we show our love to such unfaithful people correctly?
2b. Do we have to content for losing our own?
2c. How shall we deal to such people effectively both for Gospel and for the works at the same time?
The Response(s)
To question 1 …
- In the West, we tell our kids not to talk to strangers because it could be dangerous. Do you teach your children this also? And if your children don’t stop to talk to a strange man do people think they are rude and impolite? No. They realise that they are being careful and they have probably been told by their parents not to talk to strangers. Like that, John, as our spiritual parent, is telling us not to talk to men with strange teaching. He is saying, “Have no religious connection with him, and don’t act towards him so that other people believe you and him are brothers.” Why? Verse 11 says that if you do you take part in his wicked works. His accursed beliefs are filthy, and if you spend any time with him then you become filthy too. And the result is that the pure teachings of Jesus that you proclaim, become confused in the minds of people watching you, and this brings problems with sharing the gospel and many other things. Your witness for Christ become impure because of the impure man.
- Though they might think you’re not like a Christian, you are in fact doing as you have been told, making you a Christian indeed. As a Christian, we live with upside-down logic sometimes. The fist become last, the last become first, the meek inherit the earth, the rich become poor, if we save our life we lose it, if we lose our life we save it. Likewise, by having nothing to do with a false teaching we’re proclaiming Christ crucified in all its purity.
To question 2 …
- First I want to start with some Scripture, then I will answer the question more fully.
- Matt.5:38-42 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.”
- 1 Pet.2:23 When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.
- Rom.12:19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
- 1 Cor.6:7 To have lawsuits at all with one another is already a defeat for you. Why not rather suffer wrong? Why not rather be defrauded?
Q2b …
- The above Scriptures say yes, you have to be content with past loss, but you don’t have to continue losing if you are more wise in the first place.
- These Scriptures give us some important principles that we must remember when dealing with anyone. However, that doesn’t mean that you must always be a victim.
Q2a and Q2c …
- You need to set boundaries to show love and to display justice. These boundaries will become for you a reputation. I will give you just an example. You can probably think how to change this slightly to suit your needs. EG – When you hire someone, you make it a condition of hiring them that they do a job a certain way. In the agreement you also say that because of dishonest people in the past, you will not tolerate being cheated and will not pay them fully if they cheat you. It is very important that you have at least 2 other people witness this agreement. Then, when the job is done according to your agreement, you reward them with a bonus that they did not know was coming. If they defraud you or cheat you in any way, then because of the agreement you made at the beginning, they do not receive full payment. You will receive a reputation of being a rewarder of those who treat you well, and a man not to be cheated because you do not tolerate it. This way you’re being just and loving and not bringing any disgrace to Christ. Working for you will be something people will want to do and they will want to be sure to do it according to your agreement.
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What are your thoughts on these answers? Agree? Disagree? A bit of both? Please use the comment section to share what you think.
Blessings,
Martin